July 28, 2026

When Living Fabulously doesn't feel very Fabulous.

By Debbie Combrink
When Living Fabulously doesn't feel very Fabulous.

I have started writing this blog several times, and promptly closed my laptop. 

So much of what I share through Positano is colourful, positive and uplifting. I talk about confidence, connection and giving ourselves permission to LIVE FABULOUSLY. I honestly believe every word of it.

But if I am truly authentic, I also need to be honest about the seasons when life doesn’t feel particularly fabulous.

This winter has been tough. Retail is incredibly difficult right now and, if I’m honest, I am stressed up to my eyeballs. 

Behind the beautiful clothes, smiling pics and positive messages is a small business owner hustling, watching expenses, making uncomfortable decisions and trying to work out how to keep moving forward.

Running a business in South Africa is not for the faint-hearted. The cost of almost everything continues to rise while customers, understandably, are spending more cautiously. It's extremely tough times out there. Small businesses don’t have endless reserves or big corporate safety nets. Every salary, supplier payment and quiet day in the shop carries weight. 

And when your business is as personal as Positano is to me, it is difficult not to carry that weight home with you.

I’m not sharing this because I want sympathy. Nor is this a thinly disguised plea for people to buy something. I’m sharing it because this is also part of entrepreneurship, and I don't think we speak about it often enough. As a salaried employee for most of my career, I didn't get it. Yes, high-powered corporate jobs are stressful; there's no denying that, but it's a different kind of stress. When it's your livelihood, and your team relies on you, the pressure is overwhelming.

Right now, I am cutting costs where I can, reconsidering how the business operates and looking at new ways to generate income. That has also meant asking myself what else I have to offer.

The Next Chapter coaching programme was not created simply because retail is difficult. Coaching has been part of my story for many years, and helping women find themselves again has become central to everything I want Positano to stand for.

But I would be lying if I said the realities of running a small business had not encouraged me to look more closely at my experience, my skills and the different ways I could use them.

Perhaps I am living the very thing I hope to help other women do: recognising that something needs to change, remembering what I already have within me and finding another way forward.

I don’t know exactly how this chapter will unfold. I do know that I am not ready to give up on something I have poured so much of myself into.

And perhaps this is what living fabulously looks like in a difficult season. 

Not pretending everything is fine, but being brave enough to face what isn’t working, ask for help when you need it, and begin writing the next chapter before you feel completely ready.